We both have a dedicated slack community that you can join and we gather in the #LGBTQ channel in WordPress.org’s slack community. To join WordPress.org’s slack, follow these instructions before joining the #LGBTQ channel. To join our dedicated slack community, follow this link. Both of these spaces are intentionally open to allies and can be joined by anyone.
Regardless of which grouping you join, please say hi and introduce yourself when you do. It’s important we get to know each other and can find ways of offering/receiving support.